If there are no three voices at home, it is difficult for our children to be rich and honorable. Do you have these three voices in your home?

/July 2023

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Bing Xin once said:

"A good family is the source of all happiness and strength.

what is home? Home is always the warmest harbor, which can keep out the wind and rain and heal the soul.

each of us has a responsibility to run our family and make it better and better.

A family tends to decline for different reasons. Only when a family has these three voices can it be said that it has the ability to be happy.

the noise of the child

Lin Yutang once said:

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"there are only four things to do in a happy life, one is to sleep in your own bed, the second is to eat food cooked by your parents, the third is to listen to your lover's words, and the fourth is to play games with your children.

they all seem to be trivial things, but that's where the real happiness lies.

there are children at home, adults and children play together, remove all camouflage, childlike innocence, innocence, full of laughter, enjoy the joy of the family.

Qian Zhongshu likes to accompany his daughter. Father and daughter play games and make jokes like two children, and the house is always full of laughter.

once, when Qian Zhongshu saw his daughter sleeping with her belly exposed on a hot day, he drew a big face on her belly.

often before going to bed, Qian Zhongshu had to plant "mines" in his daughter's quilt, burying toys, mirrors, brushes, and even inkstones or large brushes, and waiting for his daughter to scream, he was very happy.

Yang Jiang wrote in "the three of us": "it's not very interesting to play with this kind of thing every day, but Zhong Shu never gets tired of it."

some people praised Yang Jiang and his wife as great scholars and writers. Yang Jiang replied, "the writer has not achieved much. My greatest achievement is that I have a good family."

No matter how much money a person has, if there are only four cold walls in his house, it cannot be considered a success.

the most valuable thing is to hear a child's hearty laughter after a day's hard work.

it is more meaningful for a family to be happy than to win the whole world if they can sleep no more than three feet.

the crash of pots and pans

Mr. Wang Zengqi, who likes to cook, once said:

"look at those green, fresh melons and vegetables, which make people feel the joy of life. And the greatest pleasure is to watch the family or guests eat happily, and the plate bottoms out. "

A happy home is inseparable from a steaming kitchen.

Uncle, always called "househusband" by everyone, he gladly accepted it.

even on rainy weekends, many people will pick up their cell phones and order takeout, while their uncles will put on their rain shoes and hold up umbrellas, go to the supermarket to buy fresh fruits and vegetables, and cook a delicious meal.

he kneaded all his tenderness and concern for his family into one vegetable, one rice, one soup and one dish.

once, when he had a dinner at their house, he prepared a table full of delicious food, which was full of color, smell, taste and taste.

the food was served, but my uncle exclaimed, "

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"and went out to buy it.

in fact, braised fish has become delicious, it doesn't hurt at all, but for my uncle, such a small regret is to make do with life and to be perfunctory to the family.

in this small world of the kitchen, no matter what ingredients are, there can be thousands of changes in the impact of pots and pans, incarnating into delicacies and soothing the hearts and stomachs of the family.

when the thousand sails are over and the scenery is over, many people gradually understand that life is to light a fire to live, a room full of heat, and to eat meat and talk together after a hot meal is served. It is really a life.

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the life of firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce and vinegar tea is the most beautiful state of a family.

the nagging sound of the family

there was such a problem on Zhihu:

"when did you suddenly realize that you were loved by your family?"

highly praised answer is:

"is a warning to go out in the early morning. It is a bright light to go home at night. It's turnips and pickles in the yard. It's a clean quilt on the bed. "

Love is hidden in details. The person who loves you most will not say he loves you most.

in Pi, his wife, Wang Shengnan, has a quick temper and often nags her husband.

"toothpaste must be squeezed from the middle, do not change your pants for a few days, get up without making a quilt, and chirp your mouth when you eat."

Lin Dawei never answered his wife's accusations and said with a smile, "you have a point."

some people say that Lin Dawei is too spineless, but in fact he is not.

when I was a child, I always thought I could get to know people from all over the world. When I grew up, I found that only my family cared about you most.

only those who love you will say more to you. It is a happy thing to be loved.

if everyone is compared to an island, the meaning of nagging is that we are no longer alone.

the seemingly tiresome nagging advice is not a pastime when bored, but a warm and moving concern in ordinary years, and the deepest love of the family.

the feng shui of a family is built by the whole family.

Anna Karenina says: "Happy families are all alike, and unhappy families are unhappy in their own way."

happy and harmoniousFamily atmosphere is the best feng shui for a family.

protect the noise of children, make good use of the impact of the kitchen, listen to the nagging of family members, the family can maintain happiness, even if the material conditions are not good, will eventually usher in laughter and joy, prosperity.

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